‘We love you, this won’t change a thing’
We should all celebrate this story. It is important because of Brendan’s courage and because of his father, Brian’s, acceptance. When high profile people demonstrate such enlightened response to coming out, we all benefit from it. Loren Olson
“I hope the day comes, and soon, when this is not a story.” — Maple Leafs GM Brian Burke
But, now, telling your secret to Dad is another story. Molly’s reassuring hand guides you to the couch for the moment of truth. It’s time to tell Dad, a most public example of hockey machismo, that you are gay.
Finally, you say it. Awkwardly. You basically stumble along trying not to make it a big deal before just blurting out, “And I love you guys and wanted to tell you that I’m gay.”
There is a brief silence.
Dad is surprised when you tell him that you are gay. He never suspected at all.
Your stepmom speaks first: “OK, Brendan, that’s OK.” And gives you a reassuring smile. Then your dad says, “Of course, we still love you. This won’t change a thing.”
By John Buccigross
ESPN.com
For the rest of this story, originally posted on ESPN, click this link: http://sports.espn.go.com/nhl/columns/story?columnist=buccigross_john&id=4685761