Comments on: Why am I Gay? http://www.magneticfire.com/2010/01/29/why-am-i-attracted-to-older-men/ Commentary on Being Gay in Mid-Life and Beyond Sat, 04 Sep 2010 11:05:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Loren A. Olson M.D. http://www.magneticfire.com/2010/01/29/why-am-i-attracted-to-older-men/comment-page-1/#comment-1163 Loren A. Olson M.D. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 08:47:37 +0000 http://www.magneticfire.com/?p=1172#comment-1163 You are very young. Your sexuality has yet to unfold itself to you. You may go through many changes before you settle on exactly who it is you want to spend your life with. Embrace the moment you are in, and the future will take care of itself. A decision about coming out should be based on, "What will you lose if you don't come out?" It is easier to identify the things you might lose if you do, but the losses of not coming out can be greater. But each decision must be made in the context of the world where you live your life. Loren Olson You are very young. Your sexuality has yet to unfold itself to you. You may go through many changes before you settle on exactly who it is you want to spend your life with. Embrace the moment you are in, and the future will take care of itself.

A decision about coming out should be based on, “What will you lose if you don’t come out?” It is easier to identify the things you might lose if you do, but the losses of not coming out can be greater. But each decision must be made in the context of the world where you live your life.

Loren Olson

]]> By: iGuang http://www.magneticfire.com/2010/01/29/why-am-i-attracted-to-older-men/comment-page-1/#comment-1162 iGuang Fri, 19 Mar 2010 08:40:30 +0000 http://www.magneticfire.com/?p=1172#comment-1162 I think most of my reason for being gay is that I was raised in a family where I had 3 older sisters. I was spoiled by my mom and my father seldom taught me what a man should be. I was shy and can almost only learn to act my way from my mom and sisters. And now I am grown up, facing more and more confusions about life, sex, love, friendship and many other things. Eventually I tend to get my fatherly love from a daddy bear because I get sexually attracted to them. That's just my guess. I think most of my reason for being gay is that I was raised in a family where I had 3 older sisters.

I was spoiled by my mom and my father seldom taught me what a man should be. I was shy and can almost only learn to act my way from my mom and sisters.

And now I am grown up, facing more and more confusions about life, sex, love, friendship and many other things. Eventually I tend to get my fatherly love from a daddy bear because I get sexually attracted to them. That’s just my guess.

]]> By: | Magnetic Fire http://www.magneticfire.com/2010/01/29/why-am-i-attracted-to-older-men/comment-page-1/#comment-798 | Magnetic Fire Tue, 23 Feb 2010 10:04:33 +0000 http://www.magneticfire.com/?p=1172#comment-798 [...] received this post from _______ Graham, in response to an earlier blog post, “Why am I Gay?” where I’d written that I think that a gay gene may be necessary but sufficient to explain why [...] [...] received this post from _______ Graham, in response to an earlier blog post, “Why am I Gay?” where I’d written that I think that a gay gene may be necessary but sufficient to explain why [...]

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